Happy Valentines month Roos! We’re well into the second semester of school and are over halfway through a whole school year! As Valentines approaches there is love in the air… or maybe there isn’t.. Maybe your love life has been super dry lately and you’re wondering why the universe is doing this to you– either way, GrassBurr Horoscopes are here to help! This article is intended to help you learn a little bit more about your Sun Sign’s basic compatibility and offer some general advice. Keep in mind that everything mentioned applies to both platonic and romantic relationships, and that this is just an easy way to determine compatibility and isn’t 100% fool-proof.
Aries:
Most compatible with: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius
Least compatible with: Cancer and Capricorn
Most of the time you have a very desire driven nature: you want what you want when you want it. This is the most common problem that you will face in your relationships. Be careful in making sure lust and/or infatuation doesn’t get confused for love, as this will lead to hasty commitments and relationship choices before really getting to know the partner. You have a tendency to subconsciously choose relationships that post some kind of challenge, but this actually isn’t a bad thing— it keeps the relationship alive and prevents the flame from burning out. The big lesson for Aries is to realize that committed relationships are not about fireworks and butterflies and that the grass is not greener on the other side, take your time.
Taurus:
Most compatible with: Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, Scorpio, and Capricorn
Least compatible with:Leo and Aquarius
You tend to be attracted to competitors or professional equals. Rather than seeking traditional compatibility, you seek mystery, control, and exploration. This keeps relationships lively, but be careful— the control you desire can lead to an obsessive urge to change the other person, thus resulting in toxicity. A deeper bond and strong psychological connection lies within the complexity found in Taurus relationships, so don’t sweat the small inconveniences or issues.
Gemini:
Most compatible with: Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius
Least compatible with: Virgo and Pisces
The hearts of most Gemini’s are often intelligent, unpredictable, and versatile. This leads to a constant desire for some kind of emotional stimulation— you tend to get bored pretty quickly and need constant liveliness in the relationship. People who are overly emotional or extremely stable and routine are often less compatible because it’s hard for you to feel bound for too long. However, communication is key for any Gemini. You’d probably feel way more comfortable if you could just keep your emotions either internalized or hidden, but this will cause a lot of negative energy and instability in any relationship. Keeping an open window of communication between you and the other person creates a strong bond that can withstand most problems.
Cancer:
Most compatible with: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces
Least compatible with: Aries and Libra
Cancer’s have some of the biggest hearts out there and are open to investing in a relationship. Be careful though— having such a strong desire for love can make it to where you’re either scared to give yourself to someone or willing to give up too much to be with someone. For example, your willingness to find love can often lead to you changing too much about yourself to conform to another’s desires. Additionally, you might be afraid that you are being too emotional, and that can cause you to bottle it up. In a relationship, it can cause you to be shut down, which is going to prevent you from having a truly connected relationship. Simply remember that a positive relationship is one that is filled with respect for who you are. You can’t hide or alter who you are in order to be loved.
Leo:
Most compatible with: Aries, Gemini, Libra, and Sagittarius
Least compatible with: Taurus and Scorpio
Romantic relationships can specifically be challenging for many Leo’s. You’re someone who is easily blinded by love and willing to invest everything you have into one person. On the positive side, this makes you extremely loyal to those you value in life. Unfortunately, this can make it to where you are easily blinded by the fact that your partner does things you don’t like— and you wonder why you didn’t notice these before. The problem with this is that you are the type of person to nag someone to change until they either do, or they leave. Remember to stay open and respectful of your partner’s personality (the good and the bad) and express your feelings as concerns, rather than demands.
Virgo:
Most compatible with: Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, and Capricorn
Least compatible with: Gemini and Sagittarius
Virgos are the analytical perfectionists of the zodiac. You have an internal drive to fix anything that even remotely seems like a problem which sounds like a wonderful trait— but it’s actually a huge problem starter. Nobody likes being analyzed under a microscope, and you tend to overanalyze the problem as well as overcompensate a solution. Remember that being nitpicky about someone’s personality is discouraging to them. You thrive when giving advice, but hinder from giving it unsolicited. With this, you have a strong desire for stability. Relationships that are constantly changing or frequently posing a challenge aren’t healthy for you.
Libra:
Most compatible with: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius
Least compatible with: Cancer and Capricorn
Libra’s are dreamers, often hopeless romantics. You’re overflowing with love and thoughtfulness and are often willing to commit to someone if they appear to be right for you. Be cautious though, as you have a tendency to lose yourself in infatuations for others. The love you have is not deserved by everyone and it becomes really easy to get taken advantage of. Many Libra’s who have experienced this manipulation frequently enough come to possess hardened hearts and seem to be resilient to hurt and relationships as a whole—don’t be fooled, they’ve just been hurt more than once. Remember, as a Libra, to not become too infatuated with the idea of a relationship before actually testing the waters.
Scorpio
Most compatible with: Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn, and Pisces
Least compatible with: Leo and Aquarius
Scorpio’s in general possess an “all or nothing” mentality. When combined with any relationship, this can cause many problems. For you, there is often only a black and white outlook on the world with little room for grey. Contrastingly, you also have a deep desire for a connected loving relationship. This could easily lead to your partner feeling pressured to make decisions on their own feelings too early, thus leading to heartbreak down the road. Having this mentality gives you a similar mindset to the Virgo in that all problems must be solved and that there is no room for misunderstanding. Remember that not everyone might be as ready and willing to jump feet first into a deep, connected relationship, but with time and understanding you possess the ability to create something very strong and fruitful.
Sagittarius:
Most compatible with: Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius
Least compatible with: Virgo and Pisces
The Sagittarius’ spirit is one of freedom— that is one of your deepest desires in life. The blissfulness of living your own life and doing what you please is immensely attractive to you. Consequently, you don’t do well with relationships that don’t allow you that personal space. It’s not that you are unwilling to share that part of your life, you just don’t want to feel trapped. You have a passion for exploration and want to see all of what life offers, so romantic relationships often aren’t successful during huge transitions in your life. When you do want a relationship, however, you will proceed effortlessly as it is your own desire. Remember to stay aware that not everyone is as free and fleeting as you and that not some desire a clingier love life or friendship. That being said, don’t force yourself to be tied down into something you aren’t comfortable with, and remember that you will find the perfect fit for your lifestyle in the future.
Capricorn:
Most compatible with: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces
Least compatible with: Aries and Libra
Capricorns are very practical and hardworking people. Unfortunately, this solidarity tends to attract very emotionally dependent people who can often be burdensome. This isn’t your fault, but be on the lookout for someone who is willing to contribute equally to a relationship. Remember to assert your needs; while there is nothing wrong with offering help or advice, don’t be afraid to say no to people who are simply looking for a caregiver. Furthermore, you aren’t someone who needs copious amounts of excitement to be satisfied in a relationship. That being said, be open to leaving your comfort zone and taking some adventurous paths in life.
Aquarius:
Most compatible with: Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius
Least compatible with: Taurus and Virgo
First of all, it’s your birthday season, so happy birthday! The Aquarius personality is a visual one. You have a tendency to daydream and think about your future, even if you’re unsure about the stability of things in the present. This can often create problems though because you fail to look at or realize what is going on in the moment. Try to not daydream to the point where you become emotionally detached from your partner, as that can cause commitment problems as well as leading your partner to feel under appreciated. Remember to remain patient— despite being a great communicator, things are often lost in translation between you and others because of the freedom and space you desire.
Pisces:
Most compatible with: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, and Capricorn
Least compatible with: Gemini and Sagittarius
Happy early birthday to all of you Pisces out there! Your personality tends to be half-present, and half off in a dream world. Unfortunately, this can lead your partners to feel as though you are either unreliable or not listening to what they have to say. Although it is good to remain sympathetic and understanding of others, know that you will find someone whose soul pairs almost harmoniously with your own and things will be easier. Another attribute that has both a positive and negative effect on relationships is that Pisces are very emotional. Being emotional and present is good when it leads to a deeper connection with your partners. That being said, being overly emotional can lead to overthinking and, at its worst, toxicity. Simply remember to remain understanding and present. You have a heart full of love and emotion and you will find a person who matches perfectly with you.